Divorce

I have a good friend who is going through a divorce, and it is getting nasty. I am so worried about her and her daughter. He still claims he loves her, but then he's been saying and doing things that he knows upsets her. I know what Dr. Laura would say about that (that he's a liar and a snake and she'd be better off without him), and I'm inclined to agree with her at this point. I guess it's harder when it's someone you love, but I think I would have taken a much stronger stance against him when he started acting up last November. However, this is not my fight. As much as I feel protective of her and want to make him stop hurting her, I have to stay out of it. She is getting fed up and is starting to fight back, though. They need to get to a neutral area by themselves and work out the divorce agreement together without interference from friends nor family. In any case, I am just more convinced that I will never get married. I've seen too many wives put up with a lot of bull from their husbands. This is not to diminish what wives are capable against their husbands, but most women do end up with the short end of the stick. And besides, I refuse to "submit" to anyone, especially a husband.