I want you, your girlfriend, and her mother to stop f$%&ing over my friend! It's bad enough you abandoned her! It's even worse that you stopped paying the light bill and let them get turned off. It's even worse that you made emotional living conditions so bad that my soul sister and her daughter (my God-niece) were driven from their home. Now you're preventing her from coming over to get her stuff?? Judge Gray declared that you cannot kick her out nor prevent her from coming over to get her stuff; you're in violation and risk jail time. Judge Gray also said that a restraining order can be taken out against your girlfriend and her mother, declaring them a threat to the family unit, so they'd have to stay off the property. Now you're keeping your daughters from her daughter to hurt my soul sister. All this stuff you're doing to her you're doing out of spite or under the direction of your girlfriend. YOU SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF YOURSELF!!!!
I resent you for emotionally shattering her world. I resent you for continuing to deny her access to her own home out of spite. I resent you for turning mutual friends against her with lies originated by you and those two b#&%$es. I resent you for spending money on your girlfriend and her mother while your wife and step-daughter do without at home (writing a check to Pizza Hut for $28.00 worth of pizza for y'all the same week your wife and step-daughter are home eating peanut butter sandwiches because there was little food in the home is just one of many examples of just how selfish you've been). I resent you for letting Missy (one of her dogs) get stolen, knowing who stole her, and not doing anything about it. I resent you for lying to my friend, saying you love her when you want something, then verbally threatening her when she doesn't do what you want. I resent you for lying to her daughter, keeping her hopes up that she'll see her step-sisters soon when you have absolutely no intention of doing so, and all of it to hurt my friend.
Take heed this warning: the more you act out against her, the more penalties you and the other two face legally. I've got news for you! Anyone looking over this divorce case would rule against you. You're the one who abandoned her: physically, emotionally, and financially (your bank records and mortgage records can be subpeoned and there will be proof of financial abandonment). You're the one who neglected to do things around the house or with your family, but you'd run over to that woman's house in a heartbeat to run errands for her when she called you. You're the one who eventually moved in with your girlfriend (who has a reputation for breaking up marriages) and her mother (who is an ex-convict). You're the one who took cash from my friend to pay bills for her and pocketed the money instead. You're the one bouncing checks the last few months, yet it was your wife you posted your bond so you wouldn't have to sit in jail. In fact your girlfriend and her mother have recent arrest and/or ciminal records for writing worthless checks (a form of thievery, by the way). You've already violated the rights of your wife; your last letter proves that you intend to prevent your wife from accessing her home, threatening to change the locks on the home and holding her personal belongings hostage if she went over there again without YOUR permission. Given the venomous letters and e-mails from you (and your girlfriend and her mother), mortgage payment records, bank records, your lack of credibility, and the reputation of your girlfriend and her mother, whom do you think the judge/court is going to believe???
I was one of your staunchest supporters despite everyone else when you two got together and later married. I have never done anything to hurt you; I have helped you out quite a bit and proven my friendship to you. I found out you lied to me about something in your past. Was everything else you told her and me more lies? You're not keeping your word now; how do you expect us to believe you when you say you and that woman are just friends? You have absolutely no credibility anymore. Your actions speak louder than anything you could say at the point, and your actions are what have made me now disapprove of you.
Open season on my soul sister is over. KNOCK IT OFF!!!
Update 6/22/2003: He changed the locks on all the doors of the home and has been conveniently "unavailable" when she needs to get something of hers. She can't afford movers until around July 11. I have a feeling things are coming to a head that weekend; either he lets her in to get the rest of her stuff or he'll be going to jail.